Single on Valentine's Day? Try These 20 Fun Solo (and With-Friends) Activities

Technically, we all know being single on Valentine’s Day isn't a big deal. But it's hard not to feel a little sad when you see romantic movies and TV shows take over your streaming service recommendations, a bit lonely as couples pass by your window walking hand-in-hand, or a tad irritated as you're confronted with aisles of teddy bears and Valentine's Day chocolate and candy when you're just trying to pick up your groceries for the week. And that’s totally normal and even healthy. “At the end of the day, everyone wants to feel seen, heard, valued, and appreciated,” says Jennifer Taitz, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Single and Happy. “Even people who are completely comfortable being single can have their confidence shaken on a day that their peers are walking around with physical evidence of admiration and adoration.”

In other words, you’re not a desperate, bitter killjoy if Valentine's Day is hard on your singlehood. You're just a human with feelings. One of the best ways to combat getting too far into your feelings is to set a plan for February 14, so you don't end up devouring a pint of ice cream while cyberstalking your ex. We found some great, COVID-safe activities that are healthy, fun, and will help you celebrate your fabulous self on V-Day or anytime.